So often I hear men in despair and women complaining.
Men complain cause women are always complaining, women complain cause they don’t have what they want.
And there you go, what women want? EVERYTHING, can they have it? NO, so unless you will teach her to deal with her unreasonable needs, she will take it on you, so STOP SPOILING HER WHEN SHE ASKS SO.
Are you ever annoyed by kids shouting insanely cause they want an ice-cream, and they start kicking their parents, and they just lay on the ground till they get the ice-cream? Parents just put up with it cause they are in public and embarrassed, but you are teaching them how to get what they want, it’s quite easy. Do you think grownups are that different? Of course not.
She puts up a scene for something? “Either you start being reasonable or I leave” and no matter what insane blackmailing comes to her mind, you stand your ground, you must learn to stand by your words, if you say something, it’s that.
She might start crying, that’s the worst part, you are going to be the monster, embrace it or you are going to have a hell of a life.
Yes you do need to spoil her still, but not on her demand.
The rule is: if she asks, the answer is no. If she demands it, the answer is Hell no. If she wants it and you can, and she just patiently hopes and waits, go for it, she deserves it.
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Do you know what women want? 