Ah this is one of my favorite topics.
Him unless she manages to do it first.
Easy.
Why?
Cause a real man takes care of women. This has nothing to do with equal rights, this is purely chivalry and education. This does not apply for your girlfriend only, this applies to women.
You think women can’t open the doors themselves? Or carry the bag? Or they get more wet under the rain?
Obviously women can, they can open doors, they can carry bags, and they get wet as much as you do under the rain, however, the she is the gentle sex no matter what (look at those curves, those gestures, their smile, the way they look at you) they are not MEN, so please open the door for her, carry the bag and give her your jacket under the rain.
Women don’t want to be patronized or put down, they want to be taken care of, regardless of how fierce and independent their core is, women want to be next to a real man, that acts like a man, knows what it takes to be a man, and handles it with simplicity like breathing.
It needs to come natural like walking, it needs to come automatic as a reflex, if anything you will do won’t be appreciated she will politely refuse or tell you, but that is an exception, but you just need to do the right thing from the start.
And don’t take “no” as an answer, take actions as an answer, she might be simply polite to not just let you do it, but you will see if she really doesn’t want, the way she will show it won’t lie. Look at her body language, will speak more than any word.
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